| My 12 year old son is creative and intelligent. He can | | | | major in history). My father-in-law makes use of his |
| compose artistic and written works at a level beyond | | | | library of books and tapes and records |
| that of many his age. So why can he be so difficult | | | | history specials for the boys to watch. Now, my |
| to teach? When using standard curriculum, it can be | | | | boys and I sit down together at night to watch the |
| like pulling teeth to get him to do anything more than | | | | evening news - this I believe, is a result of their |
| the absolute minimum. He races through the lessons, | | | | grandfather discussing current events with them. |
| obtaining grades far lower than he is capable of | | | | There is no comparing either of my sons' current |
| getting, or he easily gets distracted and drags his | | | | enthusiasm for history with the drudgery of plowing |
| feet, taking hours to complete what should take | | | | through a traditional school history text the way we |
| minutes. Read on to see how I confronted these | | | | used to do.In addition to completing lessons in english |
| problems.When I took over home schooling my then | | | | and grammar from a traditional school text, I |
| 10 year old son, I used the traditional curriculum that | | | | encourage my son to do some creative writing. He |
| he had been using previously with his mother. Some | | | | started writing his own kids novel which he has now |
| of the curriculum worked fine (we still use the Saxon | | | | nearly finished. He is writing some pretty silly stuff |
| math series) but other traditional home school | | | | which would not be standard fare for any of the |
| curriculum just seemed to bring out the worst in my | | | | english curricula I have seen. But he is writing. In fact |
| child. He would easily get bored. He would lose focus | | | | he is writing a lot! In 3 months from the time he |
| and often get distracted. After half a year, I started | | | | started writing this novel I have noticed a marked |
| searching for alternatives. When I found new | | | | improvement in his writing. When my son's book is |
| materials, I included my son on the decision making | | | | completed, I will publish it online and also have a |
| process. He seemed to take a lot more ownership as | | | | friend that owns book binding equipment bind up |
| a result, even though I still had the final say in what | | | | some copies for our family and friends.In summary, |
| what curriculum we finally used. Some of the things | | | | don't let yourself become boxed in with traditional |
| we do are listed below.We use a science | | | | home school curriculum. There are educational |
| encyclopedia purchased at Sam's Club for science. | | | | resources all around us if we look hard enough. You |
| Why? Of all the books we looked at it was the best | | | | don't have to use a "school" text. Look on your book |
| text in terms of explaining concepts and relating | | | | shelves or go to a local second-hand book store to |
| them to real world phenomena (even though it | | | | find books that might serve as good texts. Involve |
| wasn't meant to be a school text). We sit down | | | | your child in the decision making process. Borrow |
| together and read several pages of this science | | | | some materials from your home schooling friends and |
| encyclopedia on a concept. Then, I have my son | | | | review the books with your child. Use what will work |
| write a 100 word report. He then edits the report | | | | for both you and your child. Utilize any and all available |
| and we work on sentence composition. At the end | | | | resources and above all, have fun as you and your |
| of the term, we print out all the articles to make a | | | | child learn!Michael Sakowski works full time and |
| 15 page report. In addition to the reports, we do | | | | homeschools his son on the days he is able to work |
| related science experiments together and some of | | | | from home. He also has a website, |
| the younger siblings join in. My son loves science!My | | | | that showcases some of the resources he uses |
| son and his younger brother are taught history by | | | | when home schooling. |
| my retired father-in-law (who happens to have a | | | | |