Millionaire Psychology: The Universe Will Not Reward You Physically Until You Believe It Mentally

You need to understand that as you program yourworkbook and change your life.Let me finish with one
mind and ask yourself do you accept negativequick story. This young man and this young lady
suggestions in your mind and when people say, "Wellwere falling in love and they decided one beautiful
I can't" or "That's too hard" or "I'll fail" or "Why try"Saturday afternoon to go out in the country and
and "Nobody cares", makes a huge difference onhave a picnic. So they packed a lunch and he
how your mind works and your subconscious mind, ifborrowed his father's convertible car and they drove
your telling yourself that you can't do it and whenout in the country they had a wonderful time
you have that voice that I call the internal heckler,together, they had really fallen in love. It was time to
that heckler inside you that tells you that you can'tgo home and so they everything away and started
do it. It is important that you take that voice anddriving back and his girlfriend had allergies that were
turn the volume down and change it around toreally starting to bother her and she needed a drink
where "I can do it" and "I'm going to win" "there'sof water. So he pulled over to get her a drink and
plenty for everybody." It is going to make aopened the trunk and realized all the liquid has spilled
difference and that is the important thing becauseout, there was no liquid to drink. She was in a bad
your subconscious mind will accept what youway. So he got the cups out and got his girlfriend
program. It will never argue with you, you don't needand they walked over to an old abandoned farm and
to put any obstacles in front of it. The bottom line ishe noticed that in front of this farm was one of
that you are what you think about. You have thethose old fashioned pumps that you pump up and
power to choose. Control your thoughts.When youdown, up and down. He was going to take care of
give you subconscious mind a problem or a challengeher. So she sat down and he started pumping, five
to solve, the best time, I have found, is before I fallminutes had passed and beads of perspiration were
asleep to think about and many times those ideas willdeveloping on his forehead. Ten minutes had passed
come to me during the next day or while I sleep.and his muscles were starting to ache and he was
The subconscious mind is always working on it.ready to give up. And his girlfriend says, "No, no, no
Understand very important though is that yourdon't give, don't give up. The water could be right
subconscious mind does not respond to force. Itthere. Please keep pumping." Now guys remember
responds to belief and acceptance. You need to let itwhat it is like to be in love that, you'll do anything. So
happen and understand how to harness that energyhe kept pumping another five minutes, another ten
because as you study successful people, successfulminutes. His arms were killing him and he was starting
CEO's, multi millionaires they're following their gutto sweat all over without notice without fan fair,
they're following their intuition and that is theirwithout any type of alarm, cold refreshing water
subconscious mind. It is one of the power tools ofcame gushing out. They filled up their cups; they
the ultra prosperous. Napoleon Hill actually calls itquenched their thirst and were able to go back to
autosuggestion or self-suggestion that it needs totown.I tell you this story because I don't know the
reach your subconscious mind. He relates yourdate, the time, the circumstances that you'll become
subconscious mind to a garden. Are letting weedsexponentially successful, but this I can guarantee.
grow? Are you letting desirable crops grow are youYou learn the skills. You practice smart persistence.
neglecting your garden?Now let's spend some timeYou find great mentors, and the day and time will
on self-discipline. Now we've heard that self-disciplinecome when you keep pumping even if it hurts even
is the bridge between goals and accomplishment.if it's hot. The waters of exponential success will
Studies show that willpower is actually like a muscle.come gushing out. You'll see your success, you'll see
The more you exercise it, the more you use it, thehappiness and you will be able to achieve your
stronger you get it. Let me give you a study. Thisgreatest dreams. Go for it, do it and become
study was done with college students. They putexponentially successful.Now lets dig a little deeper
them in front of a table with a bowl of radishes andinto this race we call exponential success. This is not
a bowl of chocolate. Half the students were told toa sprint, it is a marathon, you won't see spectacular
restrain from eating the chocolate and to eat theovernight, you'll see results, but it happens a little bit
radishes and the other half were able to eat theat a time. And so the question is, how do you define
chocolates. Then they are asked to complete asuccess? Society has their definition, your neighbor
puzzle. Now this puzzle was impossible to solve buthas their definition, but how do you? What is success
they wanted to see how long they would work at itto you? The challenge is as you get caught up in
before they gave up. Now the ones that used theirsociety and we use society's definition of success
self-control and their willpower and their self-discipleand that might not matter to you. It doesn't matter
not to eat the chocolate and eat the radishes, gavewhat your parents or neighbors think, success to you
up much sooner. Those that were able to each thecould mean living off $200 living in a cabin in the
chocolate and not exercise their will power, workedmiddle of Alaska living off the land. That's find if
at it much longer.So when you are ready to make athat's what it is. Think about it; write it down, you
choice there are three "R's" that you need to thinkneed to know your own personal definition of
about. Reflect about the issue, obstacle or challengesuccess.Life is a great game. If you look at life as a
that you are having. Research your options, askgame, you could either spend your time training and
other people, and then react. Go out there and do it,willing, or spend your time in the bleachers of life
change your life and reach exponential success.waiting, watching and wishing around the field. And of
Because as you look as procrastination and the thingscourse telling everybody on the field what they
you are avoiding and the habits in your life, you haveshould and should not do. The bottom line is you're in
to realize that your life right now is an accumulationcharge of your life and your mindset. It is your
of the choices, habits and decisions that you'vedecision. We could make excuses and rationalize all
made. Your habits will determine your future andday long wearing out on the field, but to win the
your success. Many times when we look at ourgame you have to be on the field. It's just that little
eating habits, our exercise habits, or failure to saveextra effort that makes such a difference. For
money, the challenge is many times we don't see theexample, Peter Vidmare and Olympian. Gold medalist
results or the consequences of those actions untilis gymnastics. Anyway, he won a gold metal a couple
twenty thirty years down the road.Here is the key;Olympics in men's gymnastics and when he was
you can't change your habits you need to replacetraining and this is important to understand. He would
your habits. If you have a bad habit of watching tootrain hard and he had a lot of persistence and he had
much TV, replace it with reading and listening tosome talent, but realized that most of the people
motivation tapes. If you have a bad habit of eating,around him had more talent than he had. That they
you can replace it with exercise or something morejust had more natural talents. He decided to stay a
productive. So take a look at your habits and createhalf-hour longer in the gym than anybody else. So
an action plan to replace those habits with moreonce the last person left, he would spend just that
productive habits. I'm excited for you as you golittle extra half hour to train. Even though people had
down this path of exponential success. What I wantmore natural talent, that extra half hour that is what
you to do is give yourself permission to win. You canhe attributed his gold metal to that little extra
with this game, you can become what you want toeffort.The biggest obstacle with people is fear. Now
become but give yourself permission, program yourdoes everyone have fears? We do. Now here is the
mind, look at your habits and find your purpose in life.interesting thing. A little baby that is a week old, just
Many of you already know your passion, yourborn only has two fears: the fear of falling and the
purpose in life. What you need to do change yourselffear of loud noises. Some people like to take the
and to change the world. If you don't know don'tword fear and spell it out, like false expectations
panic. It is like sculpting, a little bit at a time. You'll getappearing real, some say it is forget everything and
there. Find your purpose and align that with yourrun. I think it is frozen energy actions required. So the
natural ability. Another question you can ask yourselfchallenge is that we've learned these fears, and so if
is "What do you want it to say in your Eulogy?" Orwe can learn them we can unlearn them. It is a
you can write a statement of purpose, but figure itchallenge, we have on of the big fears that Napoleon
out. Live your life with purpose. When you find thatHill even talks about is the fear of criticism. Why do
purpose it will increase your confidence.One of thewe care so much what people think? Social
great exercises you can do is actually make a victoryacceptance? We want to be accepted? Esteem
list, things you've accomplished in the past whenacceptance and praise is one of our deepest cravings.
you've had that courage and confidence to succeed.I've done seminars all over the country and as you
You know it has been said everyone is born unique,speak to people, 50-60 people come up and say
but most of us die copies. As Victor Franco said in"thank you, that was great, I appreciate it." But there
Man's Search for Meaning, I think the meaning of ouris always that one person that has something
existence is not invented but rather detected." Thatnegative to say, so the ratio is 50:1 but what is on
is what I want for you. Detect your purpose in life.my mind? That one person. What about the other
What do you want to be, what do you want to50? For example a dance instructor was teaching a
accomplish? Get on the road to exponential successlady who always wanted to dance and had saved up
and you'll see a big difference in what you are able toher money and on her first lesson, the dance
accomplish and your happiness and your willingnessinstructor said, "Man, you dance like a hippo." What
and your ability to change the world. Understandhappens to that lady? Does she ever try it again?
what Martin Luther King Jr. said, "Take the first stepShe is gone.When in reality, if you look at some of
in faith; you don't have to see the whole staircase,the famous musicians, they've had instructors say
just take the first step." Part of that faith is believingthat to them, but they didn't listen to them, but the
without seeing and knowing you are able tomajority of people do listen to them, they have this
accomplish this, and seeing your future. So getfear of criticism, they want to be accepted. Fear is
committed, keep the promises you make to yourselfone of those things that we really need to take a
and others. Work on that willpower. Watch thelook at. If you take a plank and put it on the ground
words you use. Don't say I'll try, or I could, I hope, Iand walk across it, there is no fear, but all the
might, I wish. Say I will, I can. Program your mind forsudden, if you put it up on a 20 story building, and
success. As Vince Lombardy says, "The quality ofyou have to walk across this plank between two
your life will be determined by the depth of yourbuildings, it is the same thing, you know you can do
commitment to excellence, more than any otherit, but you still feel the fear. For example, public
factor." So what are you committed to, reallyspeaking, is that a big fear among people? Why? It is
committed to? What are you willing to sacrifice toa learned fear, where did we learn it? At school?
achieve that? Make sure the commitments we makeSomebody laughed and what did we think? They are
in a moment of excitement have the sustaininglaughing at us.I teach students and one of the
motivation to take us to the next level. Yourcourses I teach at the University is Public Speaking
commitment needs to be stronger than your moods.and one of the first things we have to deal with is
I'll repeat that, make your commitments, what youthe fear in getting out and doing it. In fact, one of
want to accomplish, where you want to go, strongerthe funny things that Jerry Seinfeld says is that one
than your day-to-day moods. You'll have bad days;of the biggest fears is public speaking and public
you'll feel like not doing the things you know youspeaking is a greater fear than dying. And so he says
need to do. Find the commitment, find the couragepeople at the funeral would rather be in the casket
and do it. The wealth, the success, the relationships,than giving the Eulogy. It doesn't make a lot of
the teams, the mentors you need are around you.sense. We have to look at one of the triggers of
Find them, look for them and be careful you don't fallyour fears. Where do they come from? Whether it's
into the acres of diamond syndrome.I hope you've allspiders or snakes or monsters under the bed. That is
heard the story of the acres of diamonds. It all goesthe thing. I'm not talking major psychosis or major
back to 1870 when Russell Conwell heard this legendfear, I'm just talking about minor fears that we have
about this prosperous Persian farmer Alehafed. Heto get over and one of the biggest things they talk
had heard great stories about diamonds and theabout of course is looking fear in the face. Getting
mountains and distant seas and that you could digout there and doing it. Have you ever had an
and become very very wealthy, so what Alehafedexperience where you were so scared to do
did, was desert his own fruitful farm to search forsomething and then you went and did it and what
immense wealth and mythical diamond fields. Hewas the first thing you thought of? That's right, that
searched far and wide he roamed he becameit wasn't so bad. We spend all this time worrying
footsore and weary and spend all of his wealth. Hisabout it and the most important thing is to identify
use and his youth and his wealth disappeared. He diedthat trigger and understand where that fear comes
far from home, old disillusioned and poor. Not longfrom and get past them.Like again, the fear of
afterward acres of fabulous diamonds were found oncriticism, when you look at the fear of criticism,
Alphabet's own land. Right under his nose. It isNapoleon Hill says it robs man of initiative, destroys
important to understand that your diamonds are nothis power of imagination, limits his individuality takes
if faraway mountains or distant seas, they are inaway his self reliance and does damage in 100 other
your own back yard if you will dig for them. Theyways. He talks about that it causes lack of initiative
are close. The people you need, the contacts youand lack of ambition. It is a great enemy, you need
need to have, the skills you need to have are rightto identify that you have and get over it. Does
there. Look and you will find them.Find successfulanyone have a fear of getting on the phone? How
people around you, those that have reachedabout fear of rejection? They did studies with
exponential success. Listen to what they have to saychildren who were deathly afraid of dogs. What they
and do it. This reminds me of a story told in Chickenwould do is they would actually have the kids watch
Soup for the Soul. One night a group of nomadsother children play with dogs. That was enough to
were preparing for the evening when suddenly theycure the fear 99% of the time to see other people
were surrounded by great light. They knew theydoing it will get yourself out there and doing it.
were in the presence of celestial beings. With greatUnderstand that fear is magnified doubt. You create
anticipation they awaited a heavenly message ofthis in your mind. The critical thing is to get out there
great importance that they knew must be especiallyand do it.Overcome it and understand what are your
for them. Finally the voice spoke. "Gather as manyfears costing you. Monetarily, relationships, the things
pebbles and you can and put them in your saddleyou need to accomplish to become exponentially
bags. Travel a day's journey and tomorrow night yousuccessful. That is why it is so important to
will find you are glad that you listened and tookimplement the things we've talked about during these
action." After having departed, the nomad sharedaudios. Find the courage the confidence, the ambition,
their disappointment and anger with each other. Theythe conviction to become what you want to be. To
had expected a revelation of great universal truthdo the things that you want to do. Don't accept
that would enable them to create wealth, health andrandom thoughts in your mind. Program your
purpose for the world. But instead they were given asubconscious mind, work on your mental skills and
menial task that made no sense to them at all.program your mind for success. It works! Success is
However the memory of the brilliance of their visitoran open book test. That is the critical thing you need
caused each of them to pick up a few pebbles andto understand. Sure these are soft skills. Sure things
deposit them in their saddlebags while voicing theirare things you don't learn in school, but these skills I
displeasure.While some only picked up a few pebbles,guarantee you will increase your ability to achieve
others did as they were advised and filled theirexponential success faster than anything else. Go out
pockets until they overflowed. They traveled a day'sthere and do it. Achieve your dreams, find your goals
journey, and that night while making camp, theyand become exponentially successful.Kurt Mortensen
reached into their saddlebags and discovered everyteaches over a hundred techniques to give you the
pebble they had gathered had become a nugget ofability to effectively work with every customer that
gold. They were glad they had their nuggets. Thosewalks in your door. He teaches that sales have
who gathered only a few pebbles were sad thatchanged and the consumer has become exponentially
they had not gathered more pebbles. Those whomore skeptical and cynical within the last five years.
truly believed and filled their pockets were overjoyedMost persuaders are using only 2 or 3 persuasion
themselves for their good fortune. Your wealth,techniques when there are actually 120 available!
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